Lunching at Michael’s

Great to spend time with my friend and Editor-in-Cheif of Bella Magazine this afternoon. So good to catch up on life and business.


Audiobook

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Recording my book #yourbestageisnow this week for @harpercollinsus A new challenge to add to my work resume. #ilovemyjob #workhard #wordstoliveby


Nightline

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Join me on Nightline tonight at 12:30 to discuss and complex yet fascinating intimate partner homicide case. Very similar to the cases I discuss on Scorned for Discover ID


Exclusive EXAholics.com interview with NYC’s Top Dateologist, Tracey Steinberg By Dr. Robi Ludwig

If you want to attract someone great into your life, former attorney turned dateologist, Tracey Steinberg  www.Tracey Steinberg.com  can help you do it. She is the author of Flirt for Fun and Meet the One, as well as a dating coach and flirting expert. She has used her expertise to help may women and men find that special someone they’ve been looking for. Her successful dating coaching programs have led to countless successful relationships in both the New York and Los Angeles areas, as well as all across the USA and around the world.

In addition to being extremely talented and passionate about her work, she is on a personal mission to help everyone find lasting love. I sat down with her recently to find out more about her thoughts regarding the ever popular topic, what it takes to find and keep love!

 What’s is the most important recommendation  you have for people who are trying to move forward, and towards their relationship goals? What do they need to keep in mind when they are trying to find a healthy and rewarding relationship? 

Like attracts like and a healthy, confident person will only be with another healthy, confident person.  If you can’t honestly say that you are in a healthy place yet then I’d rather you work on building your self-esteem, cutting unhealthy ties, learn what is truly important to you in a relationship, learn how to spot “undercover hotties,” and improve your dating skills overall before you try to find that healthy relationship.  Then, once you are in a healthy place I say GO FOR IT!!! You need quantity to find quality so get your booty over to speed dating events, various singles events, ask your friends to introduce you to other singles, and create an amazing online profile on a site which has lots of members.  If you keep putting yourself in a position to meet new people you will meet a lot of people and eventually the creme will rise to the top. Before you know it you’ll meet someone special and the reasons why it didn’t work out with your ex will become crystal clear.

 What type of personality characteristics are most helpful when it comes to moving forward after a difficult break up in order to feel good about themselves, and ultimately find love? 

Moving forward after a difficult break up can be extremely challenging. Like every great challenge in life, when you have optimism, hope and faith you can do what is necessary to move forward and find real love. If you aren’t feeling that way right now it is smart to spend some time figuring out what will make you feel that way.  Perhaps you’d like to think about other times in your life when you weren’t feeling hopeful and it all worked out?  Perhaps you’d like to go somewhere that supports your faith that everything will work out for the best? Whatever supports you having optimism, hope and faith is worth it during this challenging time.

What 3 tips can you give our readers, that will help them get the most out of their dating life? 

a. Don’t take any relationship seriously until you are in a serious relationship and that person has earned your emotions.

b. Understand that not everyone is available to everyone at every minute and its not about YOU.  Some people are married, some people just lost their job and some people will think you look like their ex who broke their heart. You aren’t going to be right for everyone just like everyone’s not going to be right for you and its not a big deal.  Just wipe that dirt off your shoulder and keep going forward.

c. Embrace the adventure that comes with meeting new people and trying new things and have as much fun as humanly possible as a single person.

 Where are the best places to meet the right man or the right women today? 

Singles events, speed dating events, online dating and your every day life are teeming with exciting singles who want to meet someone special.  The more people you meet the more likely it is that you’ll meet the right person.  So, put on a cute outfit, get out of your home (unless you’re on an online dating site), smile big and say “hi,” to all of the attractive people around you. I’ve had many clients who have met their wives and husbands through both the traditional way and random ways.  You just never know when you’ll bump into someone who turns out to be the love of your life.  But you need to put yourself in a position where that is possible on a consistent basis.

 What can readers learn from your new book that will help them flirt and find the one? 

My new book, “Flirt For Fun & Meet The One,” is a fun and easy-to-read book which reveals how to figure out who is and isn’t worthy of your precious time, how to attract the best person for you, how to flirt effortlessly, where to go to find high-quality singles, and how to keep your hot date desperate for more.  I’m really proud of it and I’m so happy to share that the reviews on Amazon have been pretty amazing.

What’s the best way to learn more about you and your services? 

My site www.TraceySteinberg.com is filled with dating advice that includes everything from how to move forward after a bad breakup to how to best enjoy the single life to how to maintain a healthy relationship once you’ve met someone special.  I also work one-on-one privately with people and host my uber-fun Flirting Parties in which I encourage everyone to flirt with each other.  Now THOSE are a lot of fun :-)